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Thursday, April 17, 2008

Train up a Child

Why become a parent if you know that you can't raise a child with character? Let me start off by saying that I am not a parent but have for the last three years been a teacher at Wesleyan Christian Academy in the Cayman Islands.Not that being a teacher gives me the right to say much about having children but hear me out. As a teacher looking on at the students that come into my classroom everyday, I would have to say that most of them are allowed to do whatever they please at home. I have never been able to figure out why a parent would allow their sweet little 5 or 6 year old to make the rules for their home. So why have a child if you know you could never say "No"? Children are not perfect and were not born little angels. It is not the teachers responsibility to train your child up in the way he should go. I believe that was a mandate given by God to parents. Are many parents just ignorant or are they just too caught up in their own lives to realize that a little person is growing up in their home unsupervised? What could be more important than making sure your child isn't the one sitting on the bench everyday at school because he hit another student? It is not the teachers job to make sure your child passes their class every year. Take a little responsibility. Spend some time with them at night and make sure they have their homework done and are ready when it comes time to take the important test to move on the next year. For those of you who read my blog share some ideas of ways I can get my parents more involved. Maybe even some nice ways of telling them they are slacking in the most important job they are ever going to have.

5 comments:

Regi said...

Wow! Sounds like you are having some difficulties. Yikes!

Island Girl said...

Not necessarily difficulties but I see our world spiraling out of control and fast. I just wonder what it will be like 10 years from now!

Erika said...

I know what you mean!!! Of course when the child has to sit on the bench it must be because you are being unfair with them:) or you didn't really see what happened or get the whole story. The little "angel" would never do what you are punishing them for!!!!

Anonymous said...

It is amazing how parents don't punish their children many times! It is very sad to see the way students act in the public school that I work in. If I acted that way, I would be hurting!!!!! Keep encouraged! You are making a difference! Jason

Julie Schultz said...

Bless you. I feel your pain. Keep at it!